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Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不张扬

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Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不张扬(译文)


A friend who met many years, recently seemed to have disappeared, QQ avatar was gray, WeChat chat record in a blank, friend circle update stopped six months ago, a few of my friends with her have said that for a long time without her news The.


So I could not help but call her to ask about the status quo, asked why she disappeared in the circle of friends, whether suffered a life dilemma. Who told the phone that there are feast and feast, and she told me, "I am very happy and have nothing to say."


Happiness to have nothing to say, this simple and flirtatious words, in fact, will be hidden in their own endless words. A person, in the end how to have a heavy and well-known happiness, from the original arbitrary publicity, bent on the pursuit of vigorous, become so begrily words, for fear of disturbing the inner peace and happiness?


I thought of this decade with her acquaintance.


At the age of twenty, she was like all beautiful young girls, lips fiery warm. She met her favorite boyfriend, and day and night with his friends talking about his good, talking about his gentle, so joy and eager, so that her eyes reveals a shining light.


Friends laugh at her love, like a mad heart, she was more like a moth to fire, rushed, until the last was hurt hurt, crying over the night


It is really wantonly happy years, happy will be dancing, their crazy rotation is not enough, but also pull up the companions around the jump; and sad is not hidden, you can burst into tears, whether it is day or night, And whether friends are free, it is necessary to find the comfort side willing to give up.


The whole world knows her love in the sub-sub-combination, she was like a warrior, all the way stumbled, but also all the way courageously singing.


Sometimes, happiness is publicity, the pain is the need to vent, but happiness is deep and silent.


I asked her three years old, how life, the so-called nothing to say happiness is what, she is intermittent scattered, talking about are some of the most unusual years of small things.


The happiness of her mouth is like that. She turned around, in the love of the road finally met a rush man, then sentimentally Xu, married with their children, the daughter was born, their family moved to the suburbs of the old house, living with their parents.


Happy people, do not play well happy people, do not play well


Every morning, the man drove for half an hour to work, she at home to raise vegetables and vegetables to cook, the child by the mother to take care of the evening lights lit, the whole family in the courtyard eating dinner, complained homemade, through the usual Quiet time.


There is no big event in the world, and happiness is silent. She does not feel that day is rich, because the child is still less than a year old, she can not go out to work, can only wait a few years patience. But she happens to feel that this is also very good, although she can not tell where good


Just feel calm heart, her husband mild, parents health, young son Jiaohan, everything can not tell the wishful. World pressure, and some of her at the slightest also, but always faintly feel that this time is very valuable.


Precious to, she did not dare to disturb this happiness, for fear of words and phrases of the leak, happiness will be stingy stealth away, from then difficult to have. She even felt that happiness, not for outsiders, because it is too ordinary.


She said, live to three years old to understand, happy is crazy, but happy people, never publicity. Because happiness is a tiny fire, is a personal feeling, even with people to share, others can not really empathy.


So, she stopped the update of the circle of friends, and rarely contact with friends, but Yunfengfeng light to enjoy this calm time, speechless, but the heart abundance.


The world of greed and indignation crazy doubt, each can make you addicted to crazy. However, happiness is not the same, the real happiness, it is calm, it is gratifying, it is not proud of the heart.


Because the happiness itself is determined, quiet, silent, it is the early spring of the late flower fragrance, is the summer sunset pastoral, is the autumn of the moon, is the winter of deep water, is the world of wind blowing Valley gully, swing back to the years of long reverberation, and clip carrying a peaceful atmosphere.

 
Happy people, do not play well happy people, do not play well


Hong Kong female writer Zhang Xiaoxian low-key, usually rarely interviewed by the media, even less in public places talk about their feelings, but some time when asked, she quietly said: "I have encountered that he, happiness has been Are in. "


In CCTV's "reader" program, she also mentioned his own love. She said that in the twenty years of time, that love the people, every time to eat fish, the fish will always eat the best part of the folder to her.


She wrote more than sixty books, each of which is related to love, writing the world of joy twists and turns, but their own happiness has always silent silence. Because for her, happiness is nothing more than a fish of ordinary, Ming India in the heart will be good, but without publicity.


Some precious and simple feeling, is the need to carefully save the heart, if vividly, will inevitably be the world of wind blowing or dry.


Can be said that the export of grievances, they can not be wronged, and can say that the export of happiness, will also be marked with a discount.


Because of the face of happiness in the deep water, you in addition to fear and treasure, will be distracted, those publicity of wanton, in front of happiness, significantly extraordinarily redundant.


Many people in your invisible place to appreciate the happiness. Although they rarely contact with people, in the circle of friends can not find their shadow, but all the time, they are enjoying life.


I like those young friends wanton, happy screaming, sad when crying, as the summer sun and heavy rain, it is permeable, indulge in singing.


But I prefer those happy and low-key friends, they have had a burning, seen dying, mind clear, simple nature, know how in the corner of life to appreciate the tiny ordinary happiness, no show off the heart, no publicity state, support Afford to suffer, but also enjoy the happiness.


The world's most profound happiness, probably is happy to have nothing to say it


Can be said to have nothing to say, in fact, also said, but that is to say to their own heart. Those words, their own listening, is understood, and then no disturbance of the heart.


This may be the best emotional state that people are pursuing for life. So quiet, sure, peace, once the coming, you only happy to experience it, no need to declare to the mouth, but no need to tell the world.

 


Because the silent person, the most affectionate, and happy people, do not publicity.


一位相识多年的朋友,最近仿佛失去了踪影,QQ头像呈灰色,微信聊天记录里一片空白,朋友圈的更新停在半年前,几个我与她的共同好友都表示已经好久没有她的消息了。

 

于是我忍不住打电话给她询问近况,问她为何消失于朋友圈,是否遭遇了人生困境。谁知电话那边言笑宴宴、温情款款,她向我云淡风轻地解释说:“最近很幸福,无话可说。”

 

幸福到无话可说,这句简单而轻飘飘的话语,其实本身便蕴藏着说不尽的千言万语。一个人,到底拥有怎样厚重笃定的幸福,才能从原本恣意张扬、一心追求轰轰烈烈,变得如此吝惜言辞,生怕惊扰了内心的安宁与快乐呢?

 

我想到了与她相识的这十年光阴。

 

二十岁时,她如所有青春貌美的女孩一样,红唇烈火热情洋溢。她认识了心仪的男友,便日夜不休地与朋友们念叨着他的各种好,说着他的各种温柔,那般的喜悦和热切,令她的眼睛里透着灼灼的光。

 

朋友们笑她深陷爱情,宛如失心疯,她却愈加如飞蛾扑火,奋不顾身,直到最后被情伤刺痛,嚎哭过长夜。

 

那真是个肆意张扬的好年月,快乐便翩翩起舞,自己疯狂地旋转尚且不够,还要拉起身边的同伴一起跳跃;而伤心也并不隐藏,可以放声痛哭,不管是白日还是深夜,也不管朋友是否有空闲,定是要寻得安慰方肯罢休。

 

全世界都知晓她在爱情里的分分合合,她却如同勇士,一路跌跌撞撞,却也一路奋勇高歌。

 

有时,快乐是张扬的,痛苦是需要宣泄的,可幸福却是深沉无言的。

 

我问三十岁的她,生活如何,所谓无话可说的幸福又是怎样的,她却断断续续零零散散,说起的都是些最寻常的岁月小事。

 

她口中的幸福是这样的。她兜兜转转,在爱情的路上终遇到一个靠谱的男人,遂倾心相许,与之结婚生子,女儿出生后,他们全家搬到了郊区的老房子,与父母生活在一起。

 

Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不张扬

 

每个清晨,男人驱车半小时去工作,她便在家里养花种菜读书做饭,孩子由母亲照看,傍晚灯光燃起,全家便在庭院里吃着晚饭,诉着家常,度过寻常的宁静时光。

 

世间无大事,幸福也无言。她并不觉得日子富足,因为孩子尚不足一周岁,她无法外出工作,只能耐心再等待几年。可她偏偏就觉得这也很好,虽然她也说不出来哪里好。

 

只是觉得内心平静,丈夫温和,父母健康,幼子娇憨,一切都说不出来的如意。世间压力,该有的她半点也不少,但却总隐隐觉得,这段时光非常宝贵。

 

宝贵到,她竟然不敢去惊扰这种幸福,生怕一言半语的泄露,幸福便小气地隐身而去,从此再难拥有。她甚至觉得这样的()我的英语()幸福,不足为外人道,因为实在太过平凡。

 

她说,活到三十岁才懂得,快乐令人疯狂,但幸福的人,从不张扬。因为幸福是微小的火光,是私人的感想,即便与人分享,旁人也无法真正的感同身受。

 

所以,她停止了朋友圈的更新,也很少与朋友联系,只是云淡风轻地享受着这段平静的时光,无言,却内心丰盈。

 

世间的贪嗔痴慢疑,每一种都能令你为之沉迷疯狂。然而幸福不一样,真正的幸福,令人平静,令人感恩,令人不起张扬之心。

 

因为幸福本身是笃定的、沉静的、无言的,它是初春的晚花遗香,是盛夏的夕阳牧歌,是金秋的枝头月圆,是冬日的静水深流,是世间的风吹过山谷沟壑,荡回来岁月悠悠的回响,且夹携着安宁的气息。

 Happy people, do not play well幸福的人,不张扬

 

香港女作家张小娴生性低调,平日很少接受媒体采访,更甚少在公众场合谈到自己的感情经历,但某次当旁人问及时,她平静地说:“我有遇到那个他,幸福一直都在。”

 

在央视的《朗读者》节目里,她也提到了自己的爱情。她说,在二十年的时光里,那个相爱的人,每次吃鱼,总会把鱼脸上最好吃的那部分夹给她。

 

她写了六十多本书,每一本都与爱情有关,写尽了世间的欢苦波折,但对自己的幸福却始终无言缄默。因为对她而言,幸福无非是一块鱼肉的平凡,铭印于心便好,却无需四处张扬。

 

有些珍贵而朴素的感觉,是需要放在心头认真保存的,若晃然于世,难免会被世间的大风吹散或者风干。

 

能说出口的委屈,便算不得委屈,而能说出口的幸福,也必然会打着折扣。

 

因为面对幸福的静水深流,你除了敬畏与珍惜,一定会心无旁骛,那些张扬的肆意,在幸福面前,显着格外多余。

 

很多人都在你看不见的地方体味着幸福。虽然他们很少与人联系,在朋友圈也寻不到他们的身影,但每时每刻,他们都在享受生活。

 

我喜欢那些青春恣意的朋友,快乐时尖叫,悲伤时痛哭,如同盛夏的烈日与暴雨,令人通透淋漓,纵情欢歌。

 

但我更喜欢那些幸福且低调的朋友,他们有过灼热,见过凋零,心思澄明,本性朴素,懂得在人生的角落里体味着微小平凡的幸福,无炫耀之心,无张扬之态,撑得起苦难,也享得起幸福。

 

世间最深沉的幸福,大概便是幸福到无话可说了吧。

 

可所谓的无话可说,其实亦是说了,只不过,是说给自己的内心听。那些话,自己听了,便是懂了,便再无扰攘之心。

 

这也许是人们毕生所追寻的最佳情感状态。那样的沉静、笃定、安宁,一旦来临,你只欢喜地体会便好,无需宣之于口,更无需昭告天下。

 

因为无言的人,最深情,而幸福的人,不张扬。

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